Husband documents wife’s excuses for not having sex, she posts it on the internet, who went too far?

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Well this may not end well…

A man starts documenting the reasons his wife gives him for not wanting to have sex. He then e-mails her the spreadsheet as she’s leaving on a business trip.

The woman posted the  spreadsheet to Reddit‘s relationship section over the weekend where it quickly got more than 700 comments before the post was locked.

“My husband [M26] sent me [F26] an immature, inflammatory email as I was driving to the airport for a 10-day work trip,” she posted on the site. “Now he has cut contact.”

After receiving the email, his wife tried contacting him but couldn’t, so she wrote on Reddit: “Husband sends a message to my work email … he’s never done this, we always communicate in person or by text.

“I open it up and it’s a sarcastic diatribe basically saying he won’t miss me for the 10 days I’m gone.

“Attached is a spreadsheet of all the times he has tried to initiate sex, with a column for my ‘excuses,’ using verbatim quotes of why I didn’t feel like having sex at that very moment.”

Read more: KDVR



  • MyViewpoint

    Some women lose interest in sex or sex with their husband. Time for counseling. Might also be time to discuss ending the marriage or opening up to alternative lifestyles.

  • MyViewpoint

    Nothing wrong with keeping track. If you did not have records like this in court cases against companies, you'd lose. It's just a he-said she-said memory game then. Posting it only made her look bad in my opinion.

  • Heather

    I seriously think men and women need to take a class on what sex does or means to thw opposite sex. To help understand each other better.. as for this post if he took the time to make a spread sheet at least you know he wants you and is probably not cheating but if you keep holding out he may just end up cheating. Men dont handle rejection well and he has needs think about his needs too..

  • James

    Interesting point "How many times did the wife initiate the request for sex? Zero!
    Also there is a spreadsheet out there supposedly made by the wife, where the wife wanted a bribe from the husband, having him doing, her, chores (after working a 12 hour day), so she is able to be rested, and relaxed, to endure having sex with her husband.

    • MyViewpoint

      I don't buy this one. If sex is another chore then something is wrong. Sex may ultimately rest and relax with satisfaction. Depends on the positions.

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